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How did you know you needed 60 day rehab instead of something lighter?

Posted by quietharbor2291 on August 10, 2026

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I did a 30 day program in the spring and relapsed about 3 weeks after I got out. My counselor is now saying I should look at 60 day programs instead, but I do not really understand why 30 days was not enough. For those of you who ended up doing 60 days, what made it clear that a shorter stay was not going to work for you? I do not want to sign up for something longer than I need, but I also do not want to go through another 30 day cycle and end up back where I started.

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  • stillpoint1774Marked as the answer
    I was in your exact spot 2 years ago. My first stay was 28 days and I made it 17 days before I picked up again. What finally got through to me was my therapist pointing out that my cravings were still intense on day 25, right when the program was ending, and that people with my history often need closer to 60 days before sleep and mood really start to stabilize. Once I did the 60 day program, the difference was in the last 30 days, where I actually got to practice being sober in a stable routine instead of just getting through withdrawal and early cravings. If 30 days left you still white knuckling it by the end, that is usually a sign you need more time, not a character flaw.
  • coastalridge409
    For me it came down to what was waiting for me outside. I did 30 days the first time and went straight back into the same apartment, the same job stress, and the same 2 friends I used with. The second time I chose 60 days mostly because it gave me 4 extra weeks to work with a case manager on housing and a relapse prevention plan before I had to face any of that. So it was not only about withdrawal, it was about having enough time inside the program to actually build a plan for the outside. If your situation has not changed since your last stay, that might be worth weighing along with what your counselor is telling you.

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