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Did getting sober make your depression better or worse at first?

Posted by graylight3308 on August 10, 2026

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I'm 11 days sober from drinking and my depression feels so much worse than when I was still using, not better like everyone promised me it would get. I expected some rough days but this feels heavier and more constant than before I quit. Did anyone else go through a period where sobriety made the depression spike before it actually improved, and how long did that last for you?

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  • pacificwren88
    Mine actually got better faster than I expected, within about 10 days the fog started lifting, but I know that's not everyone's timeline. What helped me was sticking to a strict sleep schedule and telling my doctor exactly what I was feeling day by day instead of downplaying it. Everyone's brain chemistry resets at a different pace, so I wouldn't panic if week 3 still feels rough, just keep your doctor in the loop the whole time.
  • northbend221Marked as the answer
    Yes, mine got noticeably worse for about the first 3 weeks before it started lifting, and a doctor explained that alcohol had been masking a depressive episode that was already there underneath the drinking. Once the alcohol was out of the picture the depression had nowhere to hide, which is honestly why it felt heavier instead of lighter at first. I saw a psychiatrist during that stretch instead of trying to wait it out on my own, and getting on the right medication made a bigger difference than the sobriety alone did. If it's still this heavy past a few weeks I'd get evaluated rather than assuming it will pass on its own, especially since alcohol withdrawal itself can affect mood for longer than people expect.

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